Friendship
quotes
Through thick and thin, even if there are better things to do, a true friend will love you and show it. In the end, it's actions that matter, not well-meaning words.
Turkish Proverb: He who seeks a friend without defects will remain friendless. – This Turkish proverb invites us to reflect on what we demand from others in comparison to what we demand from ourselves. No one is perfect, because we are all human. Just like all people, we have flaws that our loved ones (hopefully) accept (and maybe even appreciate). Rejecting an individual because we don't like her/his defects says a lot about our own self-esteem. If your friends have many good qualities, the defects should not matter so much. Focus on their great qualities, not their defects.
Sir Francis Bacon on Friendship: Friendship multiplies happiness and divides misery. – We have already learned that shared joy is double joy. Man is a social animal no matter how much he tries to isolate himself. Therefore, there is no better condition than to be understood and supported by friends through thick and thin. A good friend will always know when you need a listening ear or a good laugh.
Quotes about friendship are often of anonymous origin, like this one. Many people measure their personal worth by the number of friends they have. However, this is a mistake. – Quantity is not the same as quality. Remember that true friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand. Those who brag about having friends all over the world are not really friends with anyone. With a true friend, you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not, because there's a special bond there.
Elbert Hubbard: A friend is someone who knows everything about you, but still loves you.
The Italian writer Carlo Dosis warns us about those who call themselves our friends, but in reality are not. – They are only with you when life is going well, when the world is smiling at you. They only care about you because of your influence over others, not because they want your friendship. Don't worry if you initially find it difficult to distinguish between true friends and fake ones. As you go through tough times, you will notice the absence of certain friends and their lack of concern for you. Value the friends that remain, not the ones that let you down. – A true friend will always be honest with you and never use you for his own gain. Friends are a family you choose yourself, so taking care of them is of the utmost importance.
Good friends don't have to be perfect, and they don't always have to be ready to help. It is enough that they accept you, are interested in what is happening in your life and that they are willing to listen to you. Friendship is both a simple and profound gift.
How to achieve Greatness
True friendship means that the true friends understand each other. If your true friend has flaws (from your viewpoint), you should make sure you understand why. Because when you understand why you can still be friends. To achieve greatness you need to be able to understand. That is the secret behind greatness.
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